Intentional Living

Real Life on Mondays

March 31, 2014


“be yourself- not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.”
― Henry David Thoreau

This life is full of illusion. Our modern world tells us that everyone’s homes look like magazine homes and everyone’s lives look like magazine lives. How much farther from the truth can it be? I read a funny post from White House, Black Shutters last week that made me laugh, titled “How to have a Perfectly Clean House”. It was sarcastic to say the least because we know it is impossible to maintain a perfectly clean house every minute unless you sacrifice other things.

On this blog I have said I want to be transparent and real, so before I show any pretty pictures (possible virtual house tour, in the near future) of my home when it’s clean, I want to show real pictures of real life. We love our house it is small and compact and gets cluttered or messy very easily, but we love it and make attempts to keep it tidy for ourselves and for our visitors. Some days that all goes out the window, most days actually.

A friend called our home “bright and cozy”and that’s exactly what we want it to feel like. Our aim is “bright and cozy” and you know what it’s totally ok to see the above picture on the Dining Room table on a Monday after a long week of art and projects. It is also ok to have loads of clean laundry just sitting in baskets waiting to find a home. Seriously though, don’t worry what I think or others, I’ll try not to worry what you think and we’ll be the best of friends. Real life isn’t always pretty but it’s very rewarding. Let’s throw illusion out the door and just be real.


As I start this series, Matthew 11 (specifically 25-30) is a good read for Real Life Mondays


I also wanted to do a quick tutorial for those wanting to stay in touch with this blog, I’ve had a few people say they can’t always see the links on facebook or twitter and would like to get notifications in other ways. There are a few things you can do.

1. The easiest is to get email notifications, there is a box title “Subscribe to Blog via Email” to sign up for email in the sidebar. ->

2. Use your own feed reader and subscribe to the Blog feed by clicking the FeedBurner Rss Feed button in the side bar or clicking here:

3. This is the one I do since Google Reader became a thing of the past. It’s called and it is a great alternative to Google Reader. There is also a smart app for Feedly so it’s great for waiting room reading or just anytime reading. You have to sign up and then enter in the blog address to subscribe but it’s a great way to stay in touch with blogging friends.

Let me know if you have any questions or need help at all, I’m happy to help walk anyone through the process.

<3 Ellie

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  • Reply Rachel April 1, 2014 at 7:23 pm

    Someone once called our home cozy, and I thought that was a perfect compliment! That means you’re doing a good job of making it “HOME”. Can’t wait to follow along {and I use feedly reader too}!

    • Reply Ellie April 4, 2014 at 9:50 am

      Thank you Rachel, we will have to have you guys over to our cozy home. :)

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